Ahoy!! Sorry for disappearing for so long. Have been keeping busy off-late (and let's hope it is a good thing). NS & Obscured - Absolutely. Relationship definitions are like silos once u slot relatioships there is only up and down...no lateral shifts. Bad in mgmnt bad in relationships. AB - No failed quests. I have no failed quests in relationships. One of the advantages of taking it as it comes. Busy anniya. Will call u sometime.